12 02 2012

Remember this?

The Passage of Time

Now we have two new photos for the sequence. Here’s Patrick yesterday:

Steering the Ship

Roar

I’m not quite sure why he decided to roar at me.

It was a memorable trip to the playground. First, it was only myself and Patrick. It was near the end of the day, and Alex didn’t want to go outside. Alex chose to stay in and read Raz-Kids on the computer instead. I’ve grown to think of the two of them as inseparable, and it’s strange for me to be with just one of them. Second, this was Patrick’s first trip out on his wooden balance bike. He loved it (although he was doing more walking than riding).

Finally, this is the first time I’ve realized: Patrick’s finally gotten fast! As a toddler, he wasn’t as graceful a walker as Alex, but he’s now got the running thing down. He spent most of the playground time running around the grassy field. A family was also out on the field kicking a soccer ball around. As you know, Patrick has an eye out for the ladies… he spent half of his running time orbiting a sixth grade girl and just soaking up the attention she gave him!

 





Brotherly Education

7 02 2012

This was the conversation in the back of the car as I drove the kids to school this morning.

A: Say “See.”

P: “See.”

A: “Three.”

P: “Three.”

A: “Pee.”

P: “Pee.”

A: “Oh.”

P: “Oh.”

A: Now, put it together!

P: “See-Pee-Oh.”

A: No, you lost the “three!” Let’s try again…





A Boy and his Dog

6 02 2012

Today was an unspeakably beautiful February day in Seattle. I mean it: I won’t speak of it. If you live here, you know how great it was. If you don’t live here, you’ll be jealous if I described it to you. Thus, unspeakable.

The weekend was fantastic, too. We spent a lot of time outside. Here are the boys at Dahl Field on Sunday (click to enlarge).

Spinning Redheaded Climber Dahl Field Rock Sculpture

Notice who else is in all of the pictures? This is another difference between my two sons: Stuffed animals. They’ve never been a big deal for Alex. Yes, he went through a phase where he attached to his Pillow Pets, but was casual like summer romance. Alex has never named a stuffed animal (or any inanimate object, for that matter).

Patrick, on the other hand, loves his stuffed animals. He’s particularly fond of stuffed animals that he can hold easily in one hand… no big gargantuan animals for him. And he’ll name his animals, although the names change. His most beloved dog was initially named “China,” but then his/her name morphed to “Lucy” when he befriended a Lucy in his class. However, in December, when little cousin Lucy was born, Patrick decided to change the dog’s name back to “China.” If you give him the choice, Patrick will carry China everywhere… even onto every play structure at the playground.

 





Scar

2 01 2012

New Year's Eve Snack

Sure, that redhead looks innocent enough. But see that scratch under Alex’s eye? It’s from Patrick, who without warning or provocation attacked his brother’s face. (Aside from a few minutes of crying, Alex was OK, and I now get to tease Alex that he looks like Scar from The Lion King. Alex then corrects me. “No, Dad, Scar’s scratch went through his eye, like this.” Then he draws an imaginary line from above his right eyebrow down to the top of his cheekbone. He’s very precise.)

As for Patrick: He actually shows signs of maturing. October was a rocky month. (Those who saw us during our trip to Virginia know that well enough!) But the last several weeks, Patrick’s been very even-tempered and upbeat. Our trip to Minnesota stands out in particular: Patrick was much, much better behaved than he was on either our summer vacation or our trip to Virginia. But every now and then he does something unexpected, like deliver this scratch.

I imagine this is what it must be like for one of those crazy animal people buy a tiger cub and bring him home. He may live in your house, eat your food, and act cuddly most of the time… but the day always comes when you remember he has claws and is a wild animal at heart.





Scientist or Troublemaker?

27 11 2011

Those who know me on Facebook read this earlier today:

First casualty of the season: Patrick wanted to know what was inside a snow globe, so he whacked it against the wooden back of our Stickley couch. Now he knows.

What I didn’t capture on Facebook was the simple, matter-of-fact conversation I had with Patrick after I cleaned up the water, broken glass, and bits of fake snow from our couch.

Me: Patrick, why did you do that?

Patrick: Because I wanted to see what was inside.

Me: What did you think would happen if you hit it?

Patrick: It would break.

I didn’t really know what to say. Everything unfolded exactly according to Patrick’s plan. He wanted to know what was inside, so he wanted to break the snow globe, so he did. All in a few seconds.

I later tried to explain that I didn’t want him trying anything like that again. Beyond the mess, I told him that broken glass was dangerous, that it could cut him, and it made me scared when I thought of him getting cut. He thought about that for a moment, and then he said, “Like that time I ran out into the street, and the car was coming, and it saw me? Like how you were scared then?” (This particular incident happened months ago.)

“Yes, Patrick, like then.”

I wonder if I’ll ever figure out how his mind works.





Turkey Toss

20 11 2011

The holidays are upon us, so Seattle parents know what that means. Turkey toss!

For those not in Seattle, that’s when the animals at Woodland Park Zoo get their special turkey dinners. With some animals, like the Jaguar, it isn’t a Turkey Toss… two turkey legs were just put on the ground for the cat to find. (Next to a cute paper mâché turkey, for some reason.)

Do you need this leg?

With the lion, though, it did look like a turkey toss. Or maybe a turkey zipline — I didn’t have the best view. All I could see was a turkey flying in the air, and moments later the lion had it in his mouth.

Turkey DInner

For me, it was an odd trip to the zoo, because Alex decided he didn’t want to go. He spent the day running errands with Molly instead, and I got to spend the morning just with Patrick. Molly & I rarely seem to have time with just one kid. It’s a different vibe. It’s certainly less stressful to have just one, and it’s nice to be able to pay attention to one child rather than always chasing after the one who happens to be running away.

(Molly’s theory is that always-wear-shorts-Alex knew in the back of his mind that he’d be cold if he went to the zoo. Or maybe he’s just starting to get tired of it. Or maybe he really wanted a donut from the grocery store, and he knew that was one of the errands. Who knows.)

Now that the animals have had their turkeys, it’s time for the people to have theirs. Happy Thanksgiving, all!





Sounds of Summer

24 07 2011

The blessing or the curse of having our kids at the Bright Horizons at University Village: The Sounds of Summer Concert Series. Wednesday evenings during the peak summer months, U Village hosts a free outdoor concert in the parking lot right outside of daycare. From the window of Homebase G, Alex gets to watch them set up the stage, so by the time we pick him up he’s past all hope: “Can we go to the concert?! Can we go to the concert?!”

The kids have been to the two shows so far this season, and they’ve had a blast. We get there early, before the music starts and it’s too crowded. The kids each have a slice of cheese pizza and a smoothie. Then they play until the music starts. After the music, Alex still plays… Patrick, on the other hand, goes right to where the music is loudest. He might dance a little, but mostly he just stands and watches, captivated.

Thus, his dream to be a rock star is born!

Sounds of Summer





Yay, Summer, Again!

10 07 2011

Tonight, after the kids fell asleep, I remarked to Molly, “It feels like we’ve already had more summer this year than we did all of last year!” Partly it’s that the kids are older, so we’re getting out to do more things. Partly it’s that the weather is simply better. (I’m still scarred from last year: The Year Without A Summer.)

After all, is there anything that says Summer in America more than spending time out on a baseball field? That’s how we started our weekend, with Alex’s t-ball practice. I don’t have any pictures, because my job was to keep Patrick from running out onto the field and grabbing all of the bats and balls. Both of our kids like t-ball so far, but Patrick seems to really like it. He can’t stand to stay home when Alex goes to practice, and if we bring him it’s hard to keep him off the field.

Watching Alex practice t-ball makes it painfully clear how different five-year-olds are from normal human beings. Yes, they’re all having fun out in the dirt, but their powers of concentration are lacking. For instance, Coach Jeff had all of the kids out for fielding practice. Each child was in position, and the coach would roll the ball through the infield to a kid. The kid had to get the ball and throw it to first base. Then the coach rolls the ball to another kid, and things repeat. With the children’s throwing and catching skills still developing, this is already a pretty challenging drill. It’s even harder when your first baseman decides just to walk off the field to get a drink of water, or to walk over to his little red-headed brother to see how he’s doing…

Another Summer in America activity? Spending a lazy afternoon at the local swimming hole. That’s what we did today. In this case, the “swimming hole” is Lake Washington. Apparently, if you’re young, it’s remarkably entertaining to just run into the water and back out again. That’s what Alex and Patrick did, over and over and over, for an hour. Well, Patrick also repeatedly tried to drink the lake water. I hope he didn’t succeed too much.

Lake Day Wonderful Summer Day!

Magnuson Park also has a wading pool in addition to its rocky beach. We spent about half our time in the wading pool, which Patrick liked much better than the lake. Part of the reason was even small waves could knock him over. The wading pool was also warmer. (That the boys got in the lake at all just shows, once again, that there might not be a lot of common sense in the next generation.)

I hope your summer weekends are as much fun!





Yay, Summer!

6 07 2011

Summer weather has arrived, and we’re getting outside to make the most of it. On Saturday, our friends Dawn and Eric arranged a trip to the Skagit Valley to pick strawberries. You should read their account of their trip last year; they do a fabulous job describing the incredible berries we got to enjoy on our trip.

Eating

Our kids had a great time, but the strawberries were just a small part of it. They got to spend the day outside in the warm sun. See horses. Play with dirt. Play on a see-saw. Learn the word manure. Run around like crazy. In other words, a full dose of summer.

Dirt Digger Patrick Walking through Lavender

More Strawberries!

(And did I mention eating strawberries?)





Welcome to Homebase E!

27 06 2011

Patrick moved to the next room in Bright Horizons this past Friday. He’s now officially a “preschooler.” He gets to go on field trips this summer (tomorrow: The Burke Museum!).

To welcome the new kids, some of the parents and teachers organized a picnic at Windermere Park on Saturday, a nice little park right on the lake. There was a small playground for the kids, and a grill for cooking our lunch.

Those who don’t live in the Pacific Northwest might not know what a typical June day is like: Cloudy and cool in the morning. (If you’re lucky, the clouds burn off in the afternoon. If not…) Saturday was no exception. If the next generation had any common sense, they’d realize that cloudy days with temperatures in the low 60s does not make for great play-in-the-lake weather.

However, after keeping the kids out of the water for over an hour, they started inching in with this:

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…which somehow turned into this:

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And no, nobody had bathing suits. We forgot that kids are CRAZY.

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